ok, to start off, im a dude. now, my slight little problem is this, me and this girl have been goin out off and on for 3 years. and this last time she told me she was doin drugs, and she knows im againist that, so i said you know you shouldnt really do that. well she gets MAD. and we break up and all that. well thats been 3 weeks ago and im hurting more than i ever have over a girl. i mean i LOVE this girl. so she goes, i mean right after we broke up, and starts makin out with my best friend, and then finally gets hooked on his one of his friends. so then her and this bisexual pothead starts goin out. which sucks for me, cause i still love her. so can anyone give me advice on how to handle this whole thing? cause its to much for me.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? gor-loc answered Saturday March 29 2008, 7:11 pm: i dont think the question should be if you want to go out with her rather you should help her especially if you like her . i know this is irrelevant to your question but you have to help her. people have died from doing drugs. also is she making out with your best friend. if so she is either trying to make you jealous or trying to mess you up. but dont go back out with her. even if you still like her. b/c she will control you. she will blackmale you saying that she will break up with you if you dont do drugs. its a horrible way to live under black male. even then if you like her you should help her. if you need advice on how to help her ask me. [ gor-loc's advice column | Ask gor-loc A Question ]
mandyx3 answered Saturday March 29 2008, 4:04 pm: alright, to start, i just wanna say i know i'm young, but i go to school with alot of people who have problems like this, so i'm gonna try and help you to the best of my ability.
ok, so this really is love. and it probably really, really hurts you because you really care about her. well, you have to try and talk to her. i doubt that the relationship that she's in right now is actually serious. it's probably just a little fling because she was pissed off about what you said about the drugs. well guess what? you were right. you were just looking out for her, and you need to let her know so she can understand that. try to rebuild the relationship with her. she is probably hurting just as much as you are right now. because deep down inside, she probably still loves you too. you have to tell her the way you feel. and you have to get her help too. you don't want her drug use to get out of control, so please try to help her. i hope that you guys can work everything out and get back together because i realize that you love her.
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