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billy.


Question Posted Thursday March 27 2008, 11:29 pm

billy has a girlfriend of two years, but he hasn't always been the best with not cheating.
and this past weekend we hung out alone and he made a move, so i kinda responded.
we didnt get in each others pants..well..
but we did make out and ever since then it hasnt been the same so im not sure how to act.
he said nothing was going to change and he doesnt "like" me but wants me..and im not sure how to take it.
i mean i havent told him how i feel about him( i like the boy, pretty stupid yeah..i know) b/c im afraid to lose his friendship.
but i cant seem to forget about that night.
and i wish we had done more and he knows that..
so im aware he's completely playing me and stuff, but i just cant force myself to stop talking b/c we're soo close.
any ideas or just anything negative or not would help.



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Razhie answered Friday March 28 2008, 10:58 am:
Hun, this is what Billy has said to you.

"Hey! I totally don't like you rommantically, but I know you like me enough put out even though I have a girlfriend! So lets do it!"

He's a turd, who isn't playing just you. He has flat out told you he only wants you so long as you help him get off.

Stop telling him what you 'wish'. You are giving him the power to abuse you, and he has already proven that he is willing too use it.

Get the hell away from him and stop mucking around with other people's boyfriends. It NEVER makes for a happy ending.

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Matt answered Friday March 28 2008, 1:15 am:
Stop being a selfish whore and think about his girlfriend. The guy hasn't always been the best about not cheating? That's a nice way of saying he's a cheating asshole that has preyed upon the idiotic feelings of many, not only you.


Obviously, he has chosen an excellent target to use because you feel NO remorse for being the "other girl," and you don't have any desire to terminate the "relationship."


Deep down, I know that you know what you're doing is stupid and wrong. Use your brain.

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ductape_n_roses answered Friday March 28 2008, 1:09 am:
Well, in my opinion, cheating guys are .ssholes. I don't care if he's the nicest guy in the world. Cheating is cheating and it's not tolerable and should not be tolerated by anyone.

Yes, he may be a good friend, but I think you need to distance yourself from him right now.

1)He just wants to get in your pants in my opinion. He doesn't like you but wants you?
2) He has a girlfriend!

I know that you said you guys are close friends, but tell him straight out that you think you guys need to back away and cool down a bit to get some logical thinking as to what's going to happen.

Good luck1

Emily
15/f

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