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Friend or not.
Okay I already know this girl isn't my friend because she always likes the guys I like. And I finally found this AMAZING beyond awesome guy. And I'm super shy, and she know's he likes me & I like him. But now she talks to him ALL THE TIME. And I havn't asked her if she likes him, but like I just know it. And now, she's like, pretending to be me and like the same things as me and asking me like "what kind of music do you like?" "What are you talking to _____ about?!" and I'm like going crazy. I'm so shy, and he wants me to talk to him but I want him to talk to me. But then this girl, my so called friend like keeps purposly messing it up by telling me like "Oh you shouldn't talk to him, he said he's not in the mood" even though that was a complete LIE. What do you think I should do?
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shes JEALOUS. if this guy is a good guy, he will ignore her and continue liking you. tell her to back off, this guy is yours. its just like an unspoken rule that whoever says they like him first gets him. the guy my best friend likes just asked me out and i had to say no, because that is what a good friend would do. your friend should be acting the same way. i would just stop talking to her. until she changes, dont even bother wasting your time on her.
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If you know what's going on, go with YOUR instincts, not what other people say. your so called "friend" needs to go somewhere the sun don't shine. He's your guy, so go get him. talk to him, don't be shy (i know that's really hard, but once you start up, things will get better and easier). if you really want him, you gotta show him.
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Ignore her.
It's not her fault you are shy, and it's not against the rules for her to be flirting with this single guy... It's not nice that she is a game-player, but when you listen to her and let her actions effect your confidence and your choices, you are just playing the game with her!
Stop playing. Take baby steps in talking to this guy and interacting with him. You have to take a risk to get a reward, so don't just wait passively for him to come to you.
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Shes a jerk i know exactly how you feel.
Just when you feel its right just say "hi "
And smile =]
Ask him if he wants to hang out some time.
Its usualy better over myspace.If you guys have one,.
And if he dosnt you know your friend is right and you guys can be okay again =]
But if shes wrong and he wants to hang . maybe you shouldnt bring her around any more =]
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Live your life as if she wasn't there.
Think about it. The source of your problem is her. If by some miracle you could act as if she didn't exist [and trust me I know what a feat that would be... been there and done that] then what would happen to your problems? They would surely disappear, eh?
So try things out with this guy and just ignore the immaturity of your "friend".
If you want some tips on not being as shy- just ask and I'll be sure to oblige ;]
--Jack
(16/m)
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