15/f
i am still a virgin, but i know i am ready to have sex. also i really like the guy i plan losing it too. he is really sweet, and never puts any pressure on me to do anything i dont want. i really like this guy, and i wanna get wit him. do you think its gonna be just a hook up or could it lead to the start of our relationship. i have made it VERY clear that i dont want this to be a hook-up, but what do you think can make me stop thinking about this subject and ease my state of mind about this
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? jobrolover3725 answered Monday March 24 2008, 10:40 am: okay im your age (almost 16) and personally.. im definetly not prude or anything but at this age i wouldnt have sex with a guy unless i was going out with them. if the guy doesnt want to go out with you i dont think he really likes you and its probably just going to be a hook up. i would go out with him BEFORE you have sex with him. it sounds like you kinda like him (you should be sure before you have sex with him) sooo yeah you wouldnt want to have sex with him (which might make you like him even more) and then find out that you were just getting used. <33 [ jobrolover3725's advice column | Ask jobrolover3725 A Question ]
Brandi_S answered Monday March 24 2008, 8:20 am: Serious relationship first.
You don't want the guy to see you as a hook-up, and you don't want him to feel this is a sex-based relationship. So worry about starting the relationship and getting to really know one another first.
abcleah answered Monday March 24 2008, 8:09 am: It probably isn't just a "hook up" considering yalls ages, but you should probaby START a serious relationship with this boy before giving it up to him. Trust me, it will make things a millionnn times better if yall actually feel love for one another. [ abcleah's advice column | Ask abcleah A Question ]
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