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embaressed about family hi i am sort of embaressed of my parents and relatives. i am having a bat mitzvah in a couple weeks and all my friends have to see my relatives. any ideas to make me not embarressed and more confident?
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You are always going to be embarrassed of them, but a good way to be less embarrassed is to be able to laugh it off or not take it so hard when they do something embarrassing. When someone in your family spills something or says something embarrassing just laugh and say how stupidly funny that was. Just remember that they are your family, and your friends will too. Hope that helped! Good luck with your bah mitzvahs! ]
Well, I was never embarrassed of my parents, but I have relatives who embarrass me.
Talk about my high school graduation... They call my name to receive my diploma... out of all the kids, MY kin stands up and screeches, hoots, hollers, cat calls, you name it.
But they really just did it to show me how proud they were of me.
Listen. Pretty much everyone has at least one relative who is embarrassing. Yes, I'm sure your friends have family like that, too.
Try to let it roll off your back. Laugh it off.
They don't mean to be embarrassing. That's how I deal. It's worked for years without number.
This is a big day for you. ENJOY IT. Rather than getting embarrassed, keep in mind, "Boy, I'm glad my family loves me enough to come and celebrate this day with me."
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