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nobody cares anymore. it's been 3 months since the break up and i had two people who cared about how heartbroken i was [still am]. about a month ago, one of those people stopped acting like they cared. she said she did, but i just knew she didnt. it was clear. now, my only support system left is doing the same thing. she confronted me about how i was talking about myself too much, and i feel like i cant tell her anymore about him. i wouldnt. i would feel to guilty every time i did. i feel like a horrible person. everyone in my life who made life worth living is giving me a reason to be unhappy. first he broke up with me, then my friends started falling apart, my support is slowly fading. i lost myself when we broke up and i cant find myself i have nobody to spill my guts to. i cant be happy. i really cant. i miss him. i just cant deal with this anymore. how to i maintain composure. help? any? please dont say "go out and have fun with friends" cause i dont like them. dont say "distract yourself" cause hes the only thing on my mind no matter what i do.
thanks;
xxhopeless
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Look, what i'm about to say is going to sound really harsh, but i'm gonna have to say it;
suck it up. move on with your life! There will be other guys in your life, I really doubt he was "the one". Obviously, he didn't want to be with you, so you can't change it. If it's been 3 months, of course your friends are getting sick of you crying about this guy! They want you to move on, so you can be happy. Seriously, there are worse things that can happen then a breakup. Just move on with your life. If he lost you, he probably wasn't good enough for you anyway. He probably is just annoyed that you're still going on about it, boys tend to get annoyed by that stuf easily. Listen, my brother just broke up with his girlfriend of 6 months. He was happy and content and ready to be friends with his ex girlfriend, until she started acting all desperate and saying he was the "one she loved" and still chasing after him. Now, he hates her. Honostly, there will be other guys, you'll find Mr. right someday, but don't rush it. Give your friends a break, and put yourself in there shoes. If you really don't like them, then make some new ones! Just a simple "hi" can spark a friendship.
I'm sorry if this sounded harsh, and I know i'm risking a 3-star rating, but i've been through this kinda stuff before, and this is exactly what my friend told me to snap me out o it. Just enjoy your life, and don't let this dude hold you back from having fun! Goodluck! :]
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Break ups aren't the end of the world.
Honestly, do you realize that there are people out there fighting a war and dying everyday. There are people in countries across the world starving every single day. There are people who are living on the streets with nothing. There are people who have 3 months to live and have to cram their whole life into it. There are people who have it SO MUCH WORSE than you do.
I think you need to stop feeling sorry for yourself, and move on. Life is too short to dwell on stupid things like a break up (trust me, I've learned this first hand and am not just saying it). Get up and do something. I know you said not to say that, but I don't care. I'm not trying to be rude (so I'm sorry if it came off that way), but I just can't believe that people in this world hate their lives, when in reality, nothing is really there to hate in the first place.
Get these feelings out once and for all. My suggestion is to write them down. Start a journal, and get it all out. Or talk to somebody, your parents or siblings, anyone. Just get it out of your system, and start living your lfie again. You can't change what HAS happened, but you can control what's GOING to happen.
Then, move on. Make NEW friends. Start a NEW hobby. Do SOMETHING besides sitting around and crying over what has happened in the past.
Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened.
-Laura. (15-)
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