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i like her she likes me but she also has a boyfreind
so going on from the title its pretty obvious whats up, i went round her house yesterday and she tried it on with me nothing too big to start then she started sittin on me and tryin to kiss me, although i wanted to so badly i didnt. and its been playing on my mind ever since (i posted a question a little like this a while ago) anyways, i left there feeling kinda... well, 1) horrified that she would do that even when she has some one allready and then she goes an tells me shes done it before with 2 other guys while she was going out with this one guy and shes all like come on do it he wont find out sorta thing. then over msn i sed somthing that relaly hurt her and i feel bad now i cant stop thinking abotu her and am starting to feel regret that i didnt do anything with her, which is like the worst thing i have thoguht in ages. i need some one else to point out pro's and cons just so i can clarify that what i'm thinking is right/wrong
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Well, I must say that I am proud of you for resisting, it was a good thing that you didn't do anything. If the other boy did find out, which he probably would have, it would have hurt him, and then you'd have to think about that as well. You avoided a large problem by not going there, it is very honerable. Well done. Second of all, if she cheats on her current boyfriend, if you end up going out with her, how could you really trust her? It seems like you could do a lot better because you seem like a nice honerable guy. thirdly, maybe find out WHY she is doing this, it could because she feels she needs the attention or maybe she just wants to feel wanted. You might be able to help her as a friend, but my opinion is to leave that one alone. SORRY.
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Well it isn't a crime to like her but think about how her boyfriend would feel if he found out about what you two have done. It would probably really hurt him. She also doesn't sound like someone that you would want to have a future relationship with because she obviously cheats and she has done it more than once with more than one guy. I really don't see any pro's to the situation besides the fact that you like her and you would like to do stuff with her. Con's on the other hand it could hurt a lot of people and your conscience will probably eat away at you. I think you were right to send her that message to try and show her that you weren't interested in her that way because of the fact that she has a boyfriend. Maybe when they break up you can try but just remember the fact that she has cheated before, keep that in mind.
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