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how to get over him..?
So i was with this guy for a year and a half and i lost my virginity to him and i fell in love. But we broke up last summer and he hates me because he heard that I cheated on him but i really didnt. He wont talk to me or even listen to his best friend when he tells him that I didnt cheat on him. It has been like 6 months and I have even had a boyfriend since then but I am not over him, he was my first everything. I see him at school and my heart literally stops. What do I do? How to I either get over him or get back with him?
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I know youve probaly tried everything but if you can give him a note, write him a letter in the mail. Anyway thats not face to face contact might work. If you have to go to his house. Just keep trying to let him hear you out. And I know how you feel Ive went through something kind of similiar to that. Just keep trying.
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It's always hard getting over someone, it can take a while to get over them too. He isn't listening to his friend, who is telling him that you didn't cheat. He is probably still hurt about it all, being cheated on (in his mind, even though it didn't happen) would hurt. Maybe try again in a little while. If you REALLY want to be with him then I suggest you try to talk to him, even if you write a letter and give it to him, there's a chance he'll read it, this way he won't have to deal with the humiliation of a face to face confrontation and it might make it easier for him to approach you later on. All you can do is say you're sorry and hope he feels the same way. If you still love him like you used to. Go for it and give it all you have and I wish you all the best.
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I was in a similar situation last summer. This guy and I dated for 3 years but then we broke up. People told him that I cheated on him and he was really hurt and upset with me. He and I finally talked it over but realized that it was just best if we stayed apart. I still cared for him but knew that i wasn't necessarily IN love with him anymore. If you really feel that you are still in love with the guy and want to be with him I suggest that you talk to him and tell him that you still care and want to try again. But if you don't think that you are in love with him anymore but still want to work it out it may be easier to move on if you are friends. That was easier for me. Talk to him and let him know that you didn't cheat and that you would like to be friends. Then you can move on but still have him in your life.
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The best way to get over him is to move on. Everyone feels a connection with their first love...it will lessen over time in most cases however. Date as many guys as possible and have fun...don't waste another moment on a guy who treats you badly.
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