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Me and my friends
13/f
Ok so I've been hanging out with the same group of friends since I came to this school. They are so awesome. Except I think its all going wrong or something. I mean some people seem like they like me more the the other friends and they one of my closest friends seem to be annoyed with me or something and it hurts. So I am usually a quiet girl but how I really am with my friends I usually am a person who actually does talk. I don't know if I should be that way anymore though. I feel really upset. My other friend I am really annoyed with because she won't stop talking about the guy she likes and he has a girlfriend ect. So I don't show that I get annoyed with people very much either. I am really upset and feel like the girl who seems to be annoyed with me, she has all my classes and thats how we are close but its just not the same anymore. Ok I am really tired of it and everything. Somebody please help me, its stressing me out. And its not like I can forget about it. Thanks so much.
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I'm not sure I got the question in that, but I will try to answer. Your group of friends is ever changing, as are you. Every person in your group is going through drama and it sounds like you are just lost in it all. I agree with what you said: you should stop being shy around everyone but your friends. Get to know more people. I'm not saying walk up to every person you see and tell them all about you, but if you sit by someone in class and you have eye contact, smile, say hi...something? And with your good friend whom you have all the classes with (if I'm not mistaken), I would talk to her about it. Ask her if she's annoyed with you, and why, if she is. There's not much you can do to fix it if you don't know what's bothering her. With the friend who is always talking about the guy who has a girlfriend. Tell her that you would love to listen to her problems,but maybe you could talk about something different for a little while. That you are a little tired of talking about a guy who has a girlfriend and that maybe you can help her find a guy that is better for her that is single. Don't be rude, but try to change the subject with something a little more interesting for the both of you. She might be offended, she might not. I hope I answered alright, with what I had. If I answered incorrectly I would be very pleased to answer anything else. Just ask me anytime! Good luck. And to help with the stress, try meditating. Not the whole crossing the legs, monk, meditating. Just sit down in a quiet place, close your eyes, and try to clear your mind. It always calms my senses and helps me think clearer and calmer. I hope it helps.
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