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okay so here is the laydown..I've been with this guy for a w


Question Posted Friday March 21 2008, 1:28 am

I've been with this guy for a couple of weeks. He's had sex about 4 to 6 time before, maybe a year ago...he claims he was just horny and looking for action. He's so good to me and I like him oh so much! But I'm scares he's trying to get in my pants since he's known to he a player. But he's so sweet. One of my bestest guy friends was like he's tricking you to get into your pants. I'm not sure...what are some signs he's trying to get into my pants?

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flamantrose answered Friday March 21 2008, 6:07 pm:
Cliche as it sounds, for the most part, you have to go with your gut. Sucky answer, I know, but as females, we have better gut instincts than we think. If he tells you things that don't sit right with you, or just don't feel honest, they probably aren't. And don't think just because he may tell you something nice without trying to have sex directly after saying it, doesn't mean he's saying it out of the goodness of his heart. And listen to your guy friend, after all, no one can interpret a guy's intentions better than another guy.

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Uniq_The_Geek answered Friday March 21 2008, 5:31 pm:
well, its human nature for everyone to get horny. but some people abuse this and go for it. so if you see that he's making the first move and even if u tell him to stop he keeps going, maybe constantly says thing to incinuate he wants to have sex, sometimes they look to see that you enjoy them touching you and whatnot (sexually). theres no exactly sign but if you guys get to the point where its close and intimate and he won't stop he might call you a tease but thats just him getting mad because you're not trying to be like some girls that give it up easily. g0od luck and hope u find the right respectful guy

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cloudy_conscience answered Friday March 21 2008, 1:22 pm:
One can be if he is constantly trying to get you to have sex with him or he is always talking about it or making jokes about sex. If he doesn't do any of this but then when you do discuss it and maybe want to he pushes you to do it he may just be interested in sex.

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-Star- answered Friday March 21 2008, 1:00 pm:
When you two are making out, if he gets too into it, then thats a good sign. And sometimes when that happens you just go along with it. But if you dont want to be like all the other girls that he has been with, then make him wait. Set a goal for yourself, like how long you want to be with him before certain things happen. If he doesnt respect your limits, then you will know what he wanted in the first place. Good luck.

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squeethepowerful answered Friday March 21 2008, 5:11 am:
I agree with your guy friend 100% on this, mostly cause I used to be the same way...doing anything to get a little action from a girl, witch included being very nice and sweet to them. Someways you can tell, is if he starts to get mad when you don't want to do the things, or he doesn't let you meet his friends or family. If you see him looking at other girls, or even ducking out of the way to avoid oncoming girls. I would definitely wait at least two , that should A. Either show he has changed and is really devoted to you. or B. He would Start to change a lot, maybe acting distant. Good luck, and I do hope its A cause I think their are too many guys like that running around now a days.

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