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Question Posted Saturday July 5 2008, 8:49 pm

hey ok so i babysit my neighbor and she is like 9 and her older brother is like 13 and im 14 but almost 15 and her older brother always has his friends over when im babysitting.. and one of his friends is REALLY tall and kinda cute(he kinda looks like he could pass for a sophmore or junior in high school).. would that be totally weird to like a guy thats like 2 grades lower than me? im a freshman in highschool and hes in 7th grade . thanks

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LOL_x0x answered Saturday July 5 2008, 9:40 pm:
It's totally fine! Like Jack said below, age is nothing but a number and when you're older, 2 grades lower is nothing.


-Laura. (16-f)

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GilbertMar answered Saturday July 5 2008, 9:00 pm:
I have to say at your ages, though weird is not the word I would use, but yes 2 years can be a problem. When your young, the stage in life you are at can be huge, even 1 year can be too much. Be friendly, talk when you get the chance, but at best, start a friendship with him. As you both get older, there may come a time when the stage you are in no longer comes into play. If nothing else, you may get a good friend out of it.

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Cux answered Saturday July 5 2008, 8:51 pm:
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Age is just a number. Think about it. What are your parents ages? Chances are that they are about 2 or 3 years different. My mom is 45 and my dad is 46- they're close- but let's pretend my dad is a 9th grader- well my mom would be an 8th grader. Is it weird that they're married? No. So does the situation change because they're younger? No. And if someone or anyone thinks that- they are just a bubbling idiot and they deserve to be smacked across the face. Only kidding. =D. But seriously, it isn't weird. If both of you are fine with it- then who CARES what the heck other people think? I certainly don't care that you're dating a 7th grader- age is just a number, again, and its only odd if you're a 9th grader dating a 45 year old man. =D.

--Jack
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