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complication with a best friend
so i have a friend. lets call her A. so A and i used to be really close. we would go on vacations together and everything. then she started to steal my clothes and whenever i'd find out she would deny it. i know for a fact that shes taken about 6 shirts. and sometimes i would be at her house and i would see something of mine and ask if it was mine and she said that i left it at her house. and i usually dont even go to her house. anyway, we started doing a sport together. after it ended though she always sat with that group at lunch and basically abandoned me and my friends. then i made a team for a cancer walk but i didnt ask her because we barely talked anymore anyway so i didnt think it would matter. then she found out and got really depressed and my other friend made me ask her to be on the team. i asked her to be on it but i dont know what to do about her. i mean, we used to be really close but i cant trust her. help please?
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Well, it's good you asked her to join on the cancer walk. The more the merrier when it's for a good cause. Right?
As for the friendship, she isn't a true friend. Nothing wrong with getting along with her, but do you really want that closeness back? She stole from you, she can't be trusted.
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Good friends are so hard to come by especially when you have one an they do a very hurtful thing to you. For one she took your belongings and for two she denied it and for three she put it all on you saying you left an item at her house knowing that you didn't,that is not good at all,you don't want friends like that and even if she admits taking from you and apologizes to you(which would probably not happen)It would be very hard to ever trust her again.
You can not have close friends if they can't be trusted.Friends come and go all the time. You win some you lose some.
Hope I was helpful,
Val
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