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Friend trouble.
I'm a guy and I normally don't have friend troubles, but here it goes..
My best friend has been acting really strange lately; he sort of shuns me now. We talked about it and he said that he was just going through some changes and that it wasn't my fault. He said that we were still best friends but he needed some space. I'm still confused though; if it wasn't my fault, then why do I feel so bad? and how can I approach my friend without being suffocating? This isn't normally a problem for me, but I just want to be as good of a friend as I can be.
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well, first when you go to him ask if hes okay with you being there. if he says no then just leave him alone for a day or two. give hime sapace and he'll be fine. try not to feel guilty, its not your fault. only time can mend some things
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all good friendships have their ups and downs. I for one have had tough times and taken it out on my friends with out noticeing it. so i know how he feels. I think that maybe if you just act like nothings happening you could just say hey whats up? but you can't be too pushey. to be the best friend that you can be is to really be there for him. maybe just come flat out and tell him that you will always be there for him and he can tell you anything. you may think this is cheasy but in the long run it may make or brake how long it takes him to get over this.
hope i helped
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