okay, i just kind of need to vent and maybe yall can give me advice on what to do.
So me and my boyfriend broke up a few weeks ago, and not even 3 days later he had a new gf. i was upset of course. but the reason he broke up with me was because my ex best friend lets call her kelly. told him i cheated on him, and i didnt and his new girlfriend was just a rebound girl. He won't talk to me because kelly has him beliving i hate him. which sucks so bad, we ALWAYS have this awkward eye contact in the hallway and theres a few occassions where ive caught him starin at me nd watchin me walk in the hallways and stuff..i still like him if you haven't already figured out and i dont know what im holding on to or if i should at all. i mean what would you do? I'm too shy to talk to him because i have a feeling he hates me or something of the sort and its hard to say what all kelly is saying to him and shes always all over him in front of me and she has a boyfriend. Am i dumb for still liking him? i mean i just keep thinking that all that awkward eye contact means something, i could be wrong though. Any advice what so ever?
Additional info, added Friday March 14 2008, 8:24 pm: He told my new best friend today that he didn't hate me at all, he has no reason to. but we still don't talk and its just really really awkward. i hate it :-/. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Brandi_S answered Friday March 14 2008, 9:26 am: Why would you be dumb for still liking him and holding out hope?
What I'd do? Tell him that if what she said was true, you certainly wouldn't have lost your boyfriend AND told your best friend to take a hike at the same time.
SQuiRToFLeMoN answered Thursday March 13 2008, 11:57 pm: your not dumb for still liking him because you guys broke up over a lie. if you really still like him then you really should try to contact him and tell him whats going on because chances are he doesn't hate you he's just hurt. [ SQuiRToFLeMoN's advice column | Ask SQuiRToFLeMoN A Question ]
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