Just recently I've been having my fair share of bad relationships. I find a lad, i really really like him, and then as soon as were together i dont want it anymore. The last guy lasted 2 weeks and i couldnt stand to be around him. It jst made me feel ill (horrible but true). I am really starting to worry because i dont want this to keep happening. I came out of a 2 year relationship last year and i am over it but im wondering whether im having problems commiting because im that scared of getting hurt agen... please if someone has been through this themselves then give me some hope of it being ok lol! thank you =]
Are you old enough to date? I don't mean hallway hand-holding, I mean go OUT on dates. If you are, then there is nothing wrong with going out on a date with a guy and NOT be "together" because of it.
That way, you can kinda play the field a bit and experience the one on one personalities of different guys. Eventually you will come across a guy you click with who you WANT to be together with.
Manderr526 answered Wednesday March 12 2008, 7:48 pm: i know EXACTLY what your talking about.
and your right,your most likely just scared of your next commitment because you've been hurt before and you don't want it to be like that again.
don't trust your future guys fully, let the relationships be easy and let them come to you, let them prove they can be there for you and not hurt you. You'll get over this eventually, i know it seems forever while your ging through it, and its hard to understand.
but you can do it =D
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