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What to talk about??
my bf and i have been best friends for a yr and a half or so and liked each other off and on the whole time but because of some dumb nodating rules and other relationships only started dating in December. we have always talked for hours at a time on the phone though and now it seems like we dont have all that much to talk about becausw we have already talked about everything! and since we dont have all that much to talk about on IM we tend to keep talking about sexual things like what we think is the hottest and what we have imagined and stuff. i know this isnt like bad per say but i think our relationship might be getting to focused on that. what else should we talk about then and has anyone else had this problem? i know we can talk about whats going on in our lives but right now im about to move and he hates when i bring that up because it makes him sad and sometimes we do talk about it but thinking too much about it gets us depressed lol. please help and i will rate! thank you :)
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iv had that problem!.. well onething you can do take a break... (probably not your first choice).. or you can start up something new.. a new job a new hobbie, some new books, hang out with new friends, spend a little bit mroe time apart so that you guys have more to talk about your personal lives instead of the sex. i know those sex conversations can get to be the same day after day after day.. usually the more things going on in your lives the more youll have to discuss or tell eachother about. make sense? anyways that fixed it for me.. but i had to spend alot of time away from them.. anyways i hope this helps. good luck
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