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does a real boyfriend ask you to suck their dik i dont think so because if they really love you they wouldnt ask you no question like that help me please?
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Its a normal act of sex actually but if you dont want to do a real boyfriend wont make you. make a deal with him if you do that then he has to do something you want him to do. but if you dont like the thought of it dont do it. :)
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that doesnt mean he doesnt love you. guys are just really horny. most guys think about that stuff all the time. just because he wants you to do that doesnt mean he doesnt love or respect you. he just wants you to do something nice for him because it will make him feel good. if it makes you uncomfortable, tell him. you dont have to do anything you dont want to. <33
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Oral sex for boys is simply a sexual desire, just the same as girls get :). So indeed a guy might ask you to do that - even if he loves you. You might say with love, it's even more alright for him to ask you to do that because you two have a connection that means you're close enough to ask you such personal questions :) it's nothing to worry about if he asks you to unelss he said it rudely, in an offensive way (as in kiss my ass! or some such).
If you didn't want to and said no, however, he'd have to respect your decision. I would only go so far as to doubt his love if he persists after you have declined his offer, or if he goes in moods or becomes rude. If you comply and he ever asks for it again, don't ever do it with doubt okay hun? If there's even a bit of doubt tell him you don't want to and why, because he's been asking too much and its making you feel uncomfortable and coudl you take a break?
So no. Just because he asked doesn't mean he doesn't love you. But if he asked and you said no and he reacted badly, there's an issue. he's bound to be a bit :/ if you decline, but as long as he RESPECTS the decision and understands to leave off, then everything's good :)
Hope I helped
(from someone whose been in a very similar situation) :)
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A 'real boyfriend' would not ask you to perform oral sex if he was well aware that such a question would offend your morals and life choices.
A real boyfriend, who didn't know it would offend you so and wasn't aware that oral sex went agianst your morals might certainly ask for oral sex and it should not be held agianst him.
A guy who really loves you, will respect your morals and choices WHEN HE KNOWS THEM. A guy who really loves you might make an honest mistake and ask for more then you are ready for simply because he didn't know your opinions on the mater.
'Real boyfriends' and 'true loves' are not mind readers. Don't expect them to be.
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