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Make the move?
I have a problem. There is a guy in one of my classes and I really like him. The only problem is that we don't know each other that well, and it's kind of wierd when we talk to each other. I want to talk to him and maybe ask him to hang out sometime, but I get the vibe that he's not interested. I just feel like I'll be making a fool of myself. (I'm not the type of girl that guys usually hit on and I havn't had a bf in a while) I have a lot of confidence, but I'm usually just "friends" when it comes to guys. I need help!
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Oh yeah I have been there. You should talk to him more. Get to be good friends and he might warm up to you. You said you guys don't know each other well then now is the time to get to know him. Just talk to him, be nice and be his friend. If he is the shy type of guy then it usually seems like they aren't interested. If you decide to ask him to hang out, don't be afraid about making a fool out of yourself. Think positive. Even if he doesn't want to it doesn't mean you have to give up. Just because guys don't hit on you doesn't mean you aren't good enough. There might be someone right now who has a crush on you and you don't even know it. So I hope everything works out and if you have anymore questions feel free to ask.
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When you first meet someone, you never know how they are. It's how we get to know that person, that really defines the relationship you'll have. Talk to him a little each day, change things up a bit, maybe pass a note or 2. After time he may warm up. If it seems to you that he isn't interested, he could just be shy. Dont worry about making a fool of yourself, you're the one making the first moves so you've got some spunk! If it turns out that he isn't interested, it's allright. There's someone out there in the world that fits just your style and one day you'll find him. Where there's a will, there's a way!
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