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did not work out to well.
ok so me and my boyfriend attempted anal sex not long ago.. when he put his penis in me i felt heaps of paint and then i was dizzy and then i fainted... why did i faint? should we try it again?
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I believe you are not ready to have anal sex. Anal sex is very risky and there are many dangers of participating in such activities.
Anal sex shouldn't be painful and it definately shouldn't make you faint. Your body fainted so you would stop feeling the pain. Your body was being seriously hurt. Pain is your body's way of telling you to stop doing what you're doing because it is not good.
Among the diseases with which anal sex is associated are HIV, anal cancer, typhoid fever, and various diseases associated with the infectious nature of fecal matter or sexual intercourse in general. Among these are: Amoebiasis; Chlamydia; Cryptosporidiosis; E. coli infections; Giardiasis; Gonorrhea; Hepatitis A; Hepatitis B; Hepatitis C; Herpes simplex; Human papillomavirus (HPV); Lymphogranuloma venereum; Pubic lice; Salmonellosis; Shigella; Syphilis; Tuberculosis.
Physical damage to the rectum and anus are serious and hemorrhoids, anal fissures, and rectal prolapse may occur. Damage is more likely if communication is poor or if technique is clumsy. Basically, if you don't know what you're doing or you end up doing something wrong by accident you may end up in the emergency room having surgery or stitches.
Can you imagine being rushed to the emergency room? Who would take you? How embarrassed would you feel? Can you deal with paying for them to sew you back up properly? Heck, can you imagine trying to use the toilet after such an experience? I bet it wouldn't be something you'd forget for a long time.
Small tears that can happen during anal sex can easily become infected. The membrane inside the rectum is VERY thin so it tears very easily. Even if there seems to be no complications the tears can be very irritating.
It is also very easy to get a vaginal infection from anal intercourse if your partner enters the vagina after being in the anus. Even if he knows not to enter the vagina afterward, he may accidentally slip.
I'm sure you can find much better things to do with your time.
Instead of trying anal sex, try seeing a movie with your partner, go out to dinner or cook dinner together, play a non-sexual game together to relive a few fun bits of your childhood, begin a paint project together, take a nice walk outside, visit old shops you've never been in together, go bowling, go rollerskating, find interesting books for each other at the library (or even a book from your childhood you really enjoyed), snuggle up and read a long book together, or even help answer questions on Advicenators together.
There are many things I bet you haven't done together that would be really neat without risking your health.
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hahahaha you know what. One time my guy and I were having sex and he accidentially stuck it in my behind, not even all the way, just part way. I Screamed so LOUD, I fell over off the bed, rolled around on the ground, Jus tscreaming "My Ass, My Ass" hahaha. I will NEVER try that shit again, and that wasn't even deliberite. This is what I suggest to you. I have talked to like a ton of gay men and they all say that shit hurts and you bleed. I think that if you really want to have anal sex, you should start off with fingering the butt hole, just like when you are a virgin and they start by fingering your vagina. Maybe start off with the pinky, then move on up to bigger fingers and then move up to more than one finger at a time, then when you can deal with like 2 or 3 fingers, then move up to the penis. Take it slow and use lot's of lubercation, because the butt does not provide any natural lubercation. That is my advice...Anyone else have something to say?
Peace
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