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Met A New Guy Who's Interest In Me Is A Little Wishy-Washy
So I met this guy a couple of weeks back and we exchanged AIM screen names and the night after we met, we talked for like three hours about everything - him, me, our interests, what we look for in a relationship. I thought we really made a connection. Then, I tried talking to him the night after that, and he could barely keep a conversation with me. Whenever he seems to be ignoring me on AIM, I just stop talking to him for a few days. Then, after a few days, I go back and try to talk to him again. We've only had about three real conversations but they were all really amazing and I really want to get to know this guy. I guess my question is, how do I get this guy to keep a conversation with me? Do you think it's worth trying? Or is he just a lost cause? Thanks.
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Do some small talk flirting. If you and your crush know you like each other, but you are shy in front of each other, do some small talk. Start by finding your similarities. Than talk about school, work, anything you do together or anything you know about him.
Find you similarities. After a while, you'll know each other a little better. Than start texting, AIM or emailing. That will give you something else to talk to him about. Make forwards with pictures that are funny so when you see each other you can laugh about.
Maybe some gossip will come around of him liking you! Soon enough he'll tell friends or tell you if he is interested. Maybe it will take a month for him to like you. But if you know he doesn't like you. Don't spread the word about how you like him. That will make things awkward. Don't be too clingy.
Don't be a show-off/snob just to attract him.
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