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him. ex girlfriend. hotel.
I've recently started a relationship with this guy. He's in a dance group and has told me that his ex still had feelings for him & he still liked her a little. I was hurt but in the end he "chose" me. I hated to even be in that situation. I told him to go with her if he really felt that way. I hated it.
Anyways. He talks to my friends and told my best friend that they're sharing a hotel this weekend because they are in a dance company and there's a competition. (There will be other people there, too.)
Soooo.... I don't know how to approach the situation. I don't think he knows I know because I haven't mentioned it to him. The relationship is fresh and I don't want to come across as being ... I don't know. I just don't know to what extent I should take it or if I should even mention it?
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I don't see harm in mentioning it. He may be afraid of telling you out of fear that you will freak out on him about it.
The guy is in a dance competition and she just so happens to be as well. You just have to accept that. You certainly don't want to be going off half-cocked making the poor guy feel guilty for attending this activity.
Give him the benefit of the doubt. He's already been honest with you about her still having feelings and all. So maybe he's an honest guy. You know, the good kind of guy to be in a relationship with.
You told him to go to her if that's what he wanted, and, yes, he "chose" you. That means that even though he may still have some feeling for her, his feelings for you are stronger.
Remember: It's not like they are going to be left all alone. And even if they were, you can't just assume that something is going to happen. I mean, they are obviously ex for a reason.
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Im going to tell you right now ... you should be worried and you should expect the worse because when you put ex's together things are bound to happen unless they hate each other totally. You should let him know how you feel, your with him now and if he wants to be with you then he don't need to be talking to her anyways. Be straight forward with him just not rude about it.
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