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Another "guy" question...
Alright, so as it always starts out, "there's this guy", and I can't stop thinking about him. I even dream about him (ALL the time..weird), and I do "like" him I guess, yet I've never actually had a conversation with him before. I'm a junior and he's a sophmore, so he's a grade below me(which makes me feel weird liking him), but anyways, we are completely different when it comes to who we are. You know, the whole high school stereotypical group thing; I'm an athletic soccer playing cheerleader, and he's one of those "scene" type of people whose in a band, has gauges in his ears, and doesn't seem to talk to many people from our school other than his close friends. I know (based on his myspace page) that we do have lots of similar interest, like music, movies, and all of that stuff, yet I don't how I could ever start to get to know him. I know I could just go up and say hi, or message him on myspace, but it's not that easy. I'm way too shy of a person to do that, plus he's kind of intimidating (considering he doesn't talk to people he doesn't know much). Is there anyway I can get this guy to notice or talk to me? I know it's kind of a stupid question, and doesn't have much of a point, but I just don't know what to do.
Thanks in advance (and sorry it's so long)
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I am like you. I am shy and I would be very uncomfortable talking to a guy I never talk to. But I have done it. And now me and that guy are friends. So all you need to do is get some confidence and smile at first and then maybe later you can introduce yourself. You would never know what can happen if you never go up and talk to him. I know for a fact it is very hard to do that but start off small and smile then introduce yourself. Then after that you can start talking to him. So I hope everything works out for you.
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Well I was in a similar situation. There was a guy who I wanted to know better, and I did kind of like him, but I had never talked.
I'd been on his myspace before, and since we had the same music interests, a great oppurtunity came up for me.
A band that we both liked was coming to town, and I messaged him telling him. Within 15 minutes he replied, and we got talking.
We ended up going to the concert together :D
So try to find some common ground and talk to him. And since you are a shy girl, and you're a bit intimidated by him, be confident, cause you'll be the girl who talked to him first :D
Hope this helped a bit.
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