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Why did he choose to sya something now?
I fell in love with this guy who once told me he loved me too. The next thing I know he moved to his other parents house, not going college, and wasn't doing anything productive for his future. Its been three years since he said those words. He had a girlfriend when he said those words. He sent me a myspace message the other day and I don't know why he did it. I was doing just fine until he spoke to me again. I was just getting over him. It wasn't just love but it was great love. What do you think it means? Why is he sending me a message after three years?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
People get bored in all relationships whether its good or bad. They like to tap old resources because its easier than looking for someone new. It's more dramatic and it seems girls always fall for the love that wasn't story. He is probably still attached to someone otherwise he would be looking for someone new, which takes effort and being single. Move on. I think I have IMed or emailed or googled about 5 old romances just for the fantasy of the impossible lost love feeling. Ultimately, you end up with the one that is in you path. Which is boring.
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I can't tell you what is going through his head, but I can tell you what I would think about it if I were in your place: I wouldn't give a damn.
A 'great love' doesn't happen when someone is cheating on thier partner with you. A 'great love' doesn't walk away from you, or abondon you for three years. Love isn't something you just say, love is something you do. He didn't act love for you, he wasn't 'loving'.
You've grown and you've moved on, which is good for you. He might have done the same, but there is no rational reason for you to speak to him expecting anything more then catching up with an old friend. If you can't speak to him without dragging up old feelings and risking all the maturing and growth you've had over the last three years, I would suggest you don't speak to him at all.
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