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talking to my girlfriend
lately, me and my girlfriend have hit a sort of wall in the social part of our relationship. it seems like every time im around her, i dont know what to say. we have been dating for 9 months, today, actually, and it seemed like in the beginning of our relationship i was much more spontainious. what are some ways i could get better at that and bring out relationship back to life? thanks.
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Well this is tough. I kind of know how you feel. Like you've been with someone so long, it seems like there's nothing left to talk about, kind of. I don't know...
Anyways...
I'd start off by asking about things that change. Like, how she's feeling or how her day went. This way, every time you ask, the answer is different. And asking her shows that you actually care about how she feels or how her day went.
Then, maybe ask how her family has been lately.
I know I like when guys show interest in my family and other things besides just me.
Also, maybe the reason you were more spontaneous at the begining of the relationship, was because it was new and something you weren't used to. But now (and I don't mean this in a bad way) you're used it, and it's not new or anything.
-Laura. (15-f)
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Communication is the key to a relationship. If you guys don't talk then how is it gonna go? There is tons of things to talk about. Just plan ahead and think of some topics. You can tell her she looks nice today, trust me all girls love that. Talk about something funny that happened earlier today and when she says something try to keep the conversation going. So I hope this helped and I hope everything works out for you.
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