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ex boyfriend.
my ex boyfriend and i broke up around the second week of january. we had been going out since october. i really loved him. he was my first serious boyfriend. i even lost my virginity to him. anyways, after we broke up i was devastated, obviously. we didnt talk for about 2 weeks. then he called me to see how i was doing.. blah blah blah i miss you. we decided we can still both be friends. occastionally, he will just stop by my house or pick me up unannounced & when i see him i just feel so happy.trouble is, everytime we hang out we end up doing things like making out, holding hands, cuddling, etc. sometimes go even all the way & i cant control the attraction i have for him. i feel like doing this is not going to get rid of the feelings that i still have for him. i cant stop seeing him though cause i miss him so much when hes not around. he broke up with me because he feels tied down in a relationship. although hes not the type to hook up with alot of girls. i doubt hes even done anything since we split. my question is: what can i do? i feel like im stuck in the position. i dont want to be friends with benefits. i dont know if hes just using me or what? ideally, i would LIKE to get back together with him, but i dont want to end up hurt again. & if he says he didnt want a relationship then, why would he now? i wanna have a serious talk with him but i dont know exactly what i should say or how to go about it. can you help me out? im fifteen by the way. thanks alot.
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Unfortunately I think he is using you.
If you really want him back make it
very clear to him that there will be
no sex or anything else since you are
just friends.
I know it will be tough to do, but
if he isn't using you he will get
back together with you. If he is
he will probably stop coming around.
Be prepared for that.
You just tell him, look, I know
there is an attraction here but
we are no longer dating. I feel
I am being used, so the sex and
stuff stops today. I only have
sex with someone who I loves me
enough to date me. That should get
you started.
Try being nice to some other guys.
You need to get back in there and
find someone new. When you do you
will find that he just isn't
important to you any more. :}
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