Question Posted Thursday February 28 2008, 11:49 am
I am so scared right now. Back on Dec 8th, i lost my virginity but it was more like a rape type thing. I didnt press charges or anything. He DID use protection. I still thought I was pregnant but my period was a few days late. So I took the test and it came out negative. So then on Christmas I got my period. I was happy as hell. On New Years Eve, I moved back home with my crazy mom who i still cant stand, i started school again, I was at the studio more, I changed my job site to a different school with bad kids and also a change in diet and exercise because i am obese and tryin to change my lifestyle. I havent got my period since Christmas. I took another test and it came out Negative again. I did NOT have any signs of spotting or nausea like some of the symptoms. dont have none of that. y breast arent larger just stomache pains when i think that i amp regnant. I asked my friends and 7 out of 8 said im not pregnant, that because of the activity my hormones changed because i had sex and that I am probably stressed. I use to be on birth control but stop Dec 2006. After that my period took it's own course like I had it vday 2007 but didnt get it again til end of April 2007. then it starts skippin weeks and months. Sometimes it just skips a month. But it just skipped 2 months.... I dont know what to think
Ignatz answered Thursday February 28 2008, 2:29 pm: You are definitely not pregnant. If you had your period after the rape, there's no way you could be pregnant now. You are most probably under heavy stress from the other circumstances in your life, and that's throwing off your hormones. If you're concerned about your health, talk to your doctor.
AngelofMercy answered Thursday February 28 2008, 1:08 pm: It seems to me that you are under stress. Stress can cause your menstrual cycle to become unregular. If you have taken tests, chances are you are not pregnant. I would say pretty slim actually.
Birth control also affects your cycle. When you stop taking it, it can make your periods irregular as well. When you were on birth control, you should have had a normal period.
I would suggest if you are still having problems at the end of next month, schedule a doctors appointment to make sure everything is okay. I would not think it was pregnancy related, more of an irregular issue. [ AngelofMercy's advice column | Ask AngelofMercy A Question ]
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