u dont know me but i have a big problem im in slower classes and teacher with extra teachers . my close friends are all in advance classes and they call themesleves stupid around me and i feel so stupid. their sitting in advanced classes and passing tests . im sitting here in pre everything and flunking everything. i cant seem to remember anything for tests . teachers dont beleive me that i study and once i heard a teacher chuckle at my test when he gave it back to me. how do i tell my friends to stop saying thyre stupid when they have stright a's , never had an D or F in their life and then how do i tell myself im not stupid i just have to push myself and everything. then my best friend is amazing at soccer and she keeps telling me she wont make the team how do i tell her she will make it instead of me shes so annoying she calls herself stupid and she has stright a.s and shes rele good at soccer. im so sad i just hate being me.. nothing i do in school is good enough.... i love your adviceyou have like 3 pages in a few weeks.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Work & School category? Maybe give some free advice about: School? advicex answered Monday February 25 2008, 7:59 pm: I know I don't know you, and that's fine. I have the same thing going on with one of my friends right now. First off don't think your stupid just because you take slower classes, I'm in two myself and they aren't stupid. People don't get that. We do the same stuff, the teacher just explains it better so we understand it more then them. Don't take it offensive when your friends say that. Tell them to be quiet, you don't want to hear about it, or if they are annoying you that bad, walk away. Go find frieinds in your classes. I can't help you pass tests, but why don't you stay after with your teacher and study with them? Most will take the time for students, not all, but most. I do the same things on test,
I'll study and as soon as I see it I will forget everything. But most homework you do out of class and in class, covers you for the test. Tell your friends, let them know your sick of it and it bothers you when they do that. Or even walk away so you don't start drama. You aren't stupid. The only reason someone has the right to call you stupid is because you don't try, or you give up. No one is really "stupid." They just don't try as hard as they can/should. Just push yourself harder. Come home study for about 30 minutes, have a snack then DO the homework. If you have questions, call a friend or 2. Ingore the friend, it seems like she just wants attention from people, and that is what she's getting. Don't put yourself down, run your butt of during tryouts and show someone you CAN do it. If you make it be pround for you, not her. If she makes it and you don't, tell her congrats and don't feel down about it. Everyone is good at something. As long as you try your best, you're perfect in school. Thanks , hope I helped![ ♥] [ advicex's advice column | Ask advicex A Question ]
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