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Long distance troubles.
I'm in a long distance relationship. We've been together for two years. We're starting to fight a lot lately. : /. He's not texting me as much and such, but when he does he's the sweet self that he always is. My problem is that he told me he'd text me after doing something and he never did. He does that quite often. And I was talking to him about it today and he just hung up. He's been ignoring me all day. I've been thinking about breaking up with him because I can't have him doing this. But, it's so hard. And I feel like I'd be making a mistake? I guess I just want to know what you would do. Sorry this is so long.
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Aww, honey =(
I know how that is. I was with a guy for two years in high school, and he went away for college. I stayed in state, and he was bad about keeping the connection going. He never called me, or IM'd me, I always contacted him. I told him I was having trouble connecting with him, and that he needed to do some more work, but by the time I spoke to him about it I already wanted to end it.
Two years is a long time, and yeah, it's hard, but if you're not happy, if he can't keep up his end of the relationship, then let him go. Find someone who cares about you and will treat you the way you're supposed to be treated.
The mistake sensation you have is probably because of the timespan of your relationship. When you're with someone for that long, you get kind of used to being with them. But that doesn't mean you should stay with them if you're unhappy.
Having been in a similar situation, I have to tell you that breaking up with the guy was the smartest thing I ever did. I met someone else who really loves me, who I really connect with, who treats me right (most of the time...*eyeroll*).
Make a list of pros and cons of staying together and breaking up. That'll help you really think about your situation and why you feel the way you do.
I hope things work out for you.
Good luck!
-Siren =)
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i'm going to be honest. if you feel like you should break up, do it. i had a friend actually not too long ago ask me advice on breakin up and she ended up breaking up because she felt like she needed too. and it wasn't even long distance. but now she's quite happy.
but i am going to say if he doesn't have an explanation soon, then he's not worth it. if he's not acting the same, then i would forget him. and long distnace relationships are hard to manage.
and i know it's been forever, but sometimes it's for the best. and sry for sayin what you might not want to hear, but i wish you luck if you keep him or not. =]
~sumsum~
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If he's ignoring you and hanging up on you, I'd say it's time to move on. Maybe he just doesn't know how to tell you goodbye. Trust your instincts. Find someone who's not "long-distance". That rarely works out. Good luck.
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