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I still love him but I dont know what to do.
Hello,
Ok me and my ex boyfriend who I dated for 3 months broke up because he told me he thinks he might of loved another girl. But he didnt want to break up, but I already dumped him. Now curently a week later he is dating that girl and already did stuff with her. I still love him but I'm not sure if I want to tell him that, I think he might just laugh at me but I've been in a really bad depression hole and I cant get out of. He was always there for me. Do you think I should tell him and try to get him back? Do you think It was foolish of me to dump him in the begining?
Thank you
CuteKitten
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you can just wait and see how things end up between him and the other girl. If he loved another girl, then maybe it was best that you two broke up. If you think he might still feel the same way about you then you go ahead and tell him that you still have feelings and would like to get back together. Let him know that you regret breaking up with him and didn't really think about it before you did it. Tell him that you understand if he is happy with his new girlfriend and doesn't want to get back together but you would really like to.
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Hey!
Well first of all, no I dont think it was foolish. It wasnt foolish at all. It was your decision, and you made a good one, simply because you followed what your heart said. If you go against your heart, well thats when disaster happens.
its up to you to decide if you think that you should tell him. I can't tell you whether or not to do it, you have to listen to your heart. Thinking this out reasonably; he is with another girl. He told you that he thought he might love this other girl. He didnt want to break up with you, but in my opinion, I think that he felt that you were the thing standing in between him and her. You did what you thought was right and let him go, and he jumped at the chance to be with this other girl. You can still tell him that you love him, if you think that it is right, however, it is really crutial that you think about this. He is with the girl that he thinks he may love. He may love you too, but thinking like a guy would, he dated you already, and he's got someone else who is willing to go out with him. It probably hurts to think about this, but if you don't, then you might make a mistake. Think this through, and listen to your heart, then you will make the right decision (and if you don't well then its a mistake you can learn from right?).
As far as depression, I am usually a very happy person, but a few months ago I spiraled into this depression, just for a little bit, and it wasnt bad, but I can see where you are coming from, and it sucks. I used to tell people that are depressed that you just have to think happy thoughts, but thats a joke, I know that doesnt work. I think that you need to make sure that you are aware of your own emotions and find someone to talk to. whether it be a close friend, or a family member, or even someone random person that you don't know at all, that can't judge you. You need to talk to someone to get it out. If this continues on for more than like a week, you need to go see your doctor, or talk to your parents or something. You can't let depression get a hold on you, you have to fight it okay? Don't give into it.
This is a really difficult situation you are in, but just take time, and try and find someone else to confide in. Try to over time, work on your friendship with your ex, that is if you decide not to tell him you love him. Listen to your heart and do what you think is right, but don't forget to think about it a bit first okay? Good luck. And I really hope I helped. Thanks for asking me, and let me know if you need ANYTHING else okay? I wish this kind of thing didnt have to happen to you, but sometimes, what doesnt kill us makes us stronger.
Love ya lots!!
Angie91
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