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stuck between two guys
hmmm
where to begin?
okay
im 14 year old girl,
a freshman in high scool
this is going to sound pretty lame but
theres this guy i like.
well its more than a like
i have extreme feelings for him.
no physical attraction whatsoever.
i like him for his personality and who he is on the inside.
now this guy likes me back,
just as much as i like him.
but ive been waiting for about 5 months now for him to ask me out.
as i grew tired of waiting for him,
my friend told me about this other guy that liked me.
now when she first told me about him
i didnt care much
i didnt even know he existed
but i talked to him on myspace for about 4 days
and unfortunately,
i developed some feelings for him
i finally met him at school
and he kissed me.
i had no idea that was coming.
we walked around school holding hands that day.
and my other love interest saw me.
i saw him later on in class
and he asked me if i was with that guy and i told him no.
so the next day i made out with the other guy.
we were holding hands again and once again my other friend saw me.
he was really mad at me.
the other guy aked me to get with him and i said yes,
fully knowing that this was a horrible decision
since then my friend has not talked to me or even looked in my direction
i just wish i could go back in time and change it all but i cant.
so what i want to know is that should i stay with my boyfriend,
knowing perfectly well that i have lost a good friend and that the relationship will only last a few weeks,
or should i break up with him and ask my friend for forgiveness
and possibly create a wonderful loving relationship
that is of actual substance?
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I you think it won't last long you should definetly try to salvage your realtionship with your friend! A fling is not worth losing a friend over.
The guy shouldn't be completly mad at you though. You weren't tied down. You weren't dating him at the time. If you two were dating you wouldn't do that.
I don't think you really did anything wrong but you need to get your friend back. Especially since you like him so much. Good luck!
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If you think your current relationship will only last a few weeks, why not end it and go get your friend back? I think it would be a good idea to go and talk with him right away.
Explain to him that you had really strong feelings for him (you may or may not mention that you still do) and you were tired of waiting around for him to ask you out. Definitely apologize for hurting his feelings. At that point, he'll probably be super happy that you said that and ask you out on the spot.
As for your current boyfriend, apologize and say you have feelings for someone else. He'll understand I'm sure. It's for his own good really if you don't feel the same way about him.
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The latter.
You knew that before you asked. I can tell. :]]
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