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this girl is taking over!
im captain of my cheer squad, and my co captain thinks shes hot sh*t. she always tries to take over and acts like she is God, seriously. I cant stand her. I do let her help with decisions, so dont think just cause I'm captain I take over all the time haha =] She is currently super mad at me because I wouldn't change something that we were wearing, simply because she didn't feel like wearing it. The rest of my squad was totally fine with it, so I told her we will not change what were wearing, but she can wear something else if its that big of a deal. she wont shut up, she keeps going on about how im making it such a big deal and how i should just change it. shes like seriously pissed at me because i wont change it all for her, and when she doesnt get what she wants, or she isnt in the center of attention, she HAS to get what she wants. She will convince my coach to change our positions in routines so she can be front center, which she has been the past 3 performances, I never have. I am being as nice as possible to her, and I am trying to compromise, but she is such a !@#$%. i dont want to talk to my coach (she sucks haha) and ive tried talking to my co captain, but she doesnt care. She has a way of making the other girls follow her, like when she talks bad about someone she gets them all to join in. I am worried they will start listening to her and hating me! I am trying to just let it go, but it really bothers me! I hate having an enemy on my own squad, but I'm sooo sick of her! Should I just make it through the year and ignore her? I have to cheer with her tomorrow... =[ oh and please dont say to talk to my coach, she sucks, seriously, and she wont stand up to us ever, shes more like a friend haha. Thanks a bunch sorry its so long!
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Sounds like she was spoiled at an early age ha ha. I say you should talk to your coach, even if she is a bitch. Tell her that you really don't think you should change a certain thing JUST for the benefit of one girl. She is the coach, afterall. She can make cuts, if you know what I mean ;]. If that doesn't work, I'm afraid you might have to talk to the girl. Do not let her get her way, because she will be even more spoiled, but keep at it in a mature manner, as you've been doing. Try to be friends with her and be nice to her, even if she's annoying, just suck it up and act like you're cool with her. If you're afraid of gossip turning the team against you, hold a team meeting. Talk to them all and tell them what your views on the situation are and then let the other girl get to tell her views. Then let the team talk about it while you and the other girl go into a different room. :] Goodluck!
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Find a friend who will listen. This always helps me.
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