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this guy i like, well the other day he was flirting with me and yesterday i found out him and his girlfriend broke up. I dont know why....i know what i want to think why they did but that dont make it true...ha ha....but anyways today he was sitting a table away from me and was all drowsy looking and i said "cj whats wrong with you?" and he said "nothing" and i said "are you sure? your bringing me down!" and he started talking and was all quiet and i said "i did not hear a single word you said." and he was like "good you werent supposed to" and smiled at me and i smiled back but my question what could this mean??
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He is problay still really sad about his girlfriend. You should give him some time to get over it. When he is finally over it then you should invite him to go out for pizza and a movie with a friend or two. Then treat him like anyother friend and after you have known him for a while you can treat him alot more like a best friend and then you never know you might fall out of love with him or you could fall more in love with him and he might fall in love with you. Here are some tips on how to get a boy to like you:
Establish a basic friendship with the boy you like. Socialize with him often and become at least noticed
Think about how to approach him- timing is everything. Ask his friends if they (including the boy you like) are going somewhere close like a park or movie. Then make sure you are there. Try taking a friend or two with you.
Be confident and avoid stuttering.
Flirt solely with the boy you like. Say hello to him every day!
BE yourself!
Take advantage of any opportunity to spend time with him- try to sit next to him in classes where you can choose your seat.
See how popular he is. Usually if you are at the same amount of popularity, the boy will go out with you no problem.
Impress him by wearing clothes that make you feel good about your self and look good on your body. Confidence is everything. BUT NOT BELLY SHIRTS. You don't have to wear abercrombie, hollister, or any fancy "brand-name" store. Shop were you feel comfortable and don't dress a certain JUST to attract a guys attention. Just make sure you look nice and presentable, not like a dirt-bag.
Beware of other girls moving in on your boy- if you know the girl, this is perfect because you can chat during or after she's flirting and compromise who gets him. Plus he will see you talking to her and assume you like him.
Be patient and polite. If a boy likes you back he will probably try to talk to you eventually.
Just be yourself! It will be no fun dating a boy while you storm up an act each second, and no one likes a liar.
Move on as a last resort. Don't try to change what you wear or what you do if the boy doesn't like you for who you are.
Become friends with his friends. He will for sure ask
them before going out with you.
If you wanna go out with him try a double date and bring up casually where you and you friend and friends date will be and say if he wants to come he can.
If you really like this boy, once he asks you out, don't write a note that says 'I love u', he'll think you're coming on too fast.
If he is shy, be his friend before asking him out. If you don't he will probably try to avoid you and if he likes you, he'll keep it a secret.
Looks and popularity often begin relationships, but they are not everything. Keep in mind his personality and question why you like this boy and whether you really should.
Making drastic changes to yourself may make the boy more attracted to you, but losing yourself just for a guy isn't worth it. Little changes are fine but you shouldn't become obsessed with a boy if you hardly know him. Keep in mind your values and morals. If this boy truly likes you, he should value your idiosyncratic or unique characteristics.
make sure you like him because he has a good personality not just a hot body or cute face.
don't forget about school and friends so you can hang out with him. make sure to do homework and hang out with friends because you dont want to lose your friend over this .
If he" Hates" you dont hate him back just be nice.All he will want is a friend."2 months after u r his friend then try to make ur move
when asking if he has a girlfriend or about other personal information, do not sound desperate. Ask casually, and only if the subject comes up.
If people ask you if you like him in front of the boy, be prepared to answer. Think about the kind of boy he is, how close you are to him already, and if you have a chance of dating him. Do you want to make it known that you like the boy? Keep these questions in mind while formulating the answer. Try thinking of an answer in advance.Do not cake on makeup just to impress him. He isn't looking for a faker. He wants a natural girl. Again, different guys like different things, do your makeup how you want.
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I know how nerve wracking it must be, 'cause you think that he might be flirting with you. My advice, is if he flirts, you flirt back.
I'm not sure if he likes you for real, or he just likes to flirt.
He might have done that to try and get you to ask more questions a.k.a finding an excuse to talk to you.
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