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i need advice!
okay i'm going out with this guy and he's amazing but i now this other guy, which likes me, and i'm starting to like him! but the thing is, i really don't want to break up with my boyfriend now because he really likes me and it was just valentine's day and he got me a big present! but the other guy that isn't my bf is super superrr nice and he even asked me if i wasn't going out wtih my bf now, would i go out wtih him!? adn i'm just so confused pleaseeee help me erin. :D thank you.
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well, yeahh.. DEFFF been in that situation, except mine was just a... TADDDD more complicated.
okay, well, i know that you totally dont want to hurt your boyfriends feelings, but forcing yourself to stay with someone isnt right. you do what you think is right. i cant tell you to break up with him, and i cant tell you NOT to break up with him.
but, you have to respect your own feelings... yes, you might hurt his along the way too, but think about how much it will hurt him when he finds out LATER from someone else that you like another guy... that would hurt him ALOTLOT more.
and if you do break up with your boyfriend, (think about it before you do, or dont break up with him), give time just for yourself. you can't just jump into a relationship with someone else RIGHT AFTER you broke up with your boyfriend. before you go out with another guy, make sure that your boyfriend is okay. yeah, he might not be too thrilled about you breaking up with him.. but give him some time. and until you know he is fine with you goign out with someone else, then do it.
think carefully about both guys.. whichever one you think will take care of you the most, or has taken care of you... and dont just think about the good things, think about the downside to both of the guys too.
come back if you need more help(:
erin.
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