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groups of friends
so jen and i have been friends since like 1st grade, not best friends just friends. then in middle school 6th and 7th grade we didnt really talk but we were still okay friends. 8th grade we had a few classes together and we became good friends. we sat together with morgan kelley and gina and the "lunch crew" had fun. we were all good friends except for jen and gina, jen didnt like gina for stupid reasons and eventually once high school came kelley kinda dropped out from my social life and now recently gina did. morgan doesnt like me but she is best friends with jen. well my best friend is abbie and abbie and i have only been best friends since 6th grade(were freshman now) we did everything together and everyone knew we were besties. all of us abbie,jen,morgan,and kelley were friends. (actually in 7th grade abbie and i didnt talk for a long time and abbie and morgan became besties) (morgan and kelley are besties andhave been for like ever) so kelley aand morgan are out of my life and i dont care. now i have abbie and jen. abbie and jen liked eachother but like i said about jen, shes very speaks her mind and very honest. and something about jen abbie doesnt like. i understand but shes still my best friend. i want a group of friends, so i know there is always somone to talk to and something to do. i dont wanna leave abbie or jen though because like jen really cant be serious and always makes me laugh but we think she has some form of bipolar disorder seriously. she can change from happy and kidding around to like total bitch telling me off in like 2 seconds. but im used to it but abbie on the other hand, i dont find as naturally funny as jen, abbie i feel tries to be funny and its not but shes an awesome friend most of the time. i just want them to be besties along with me so we could all hang out and have fun. if that cant happen, i would probably go to abbie and her friends and maybe we could be a little group. okay my point is how can i get my friends into one big group (even if they have nothing against eachother, how could i get them from the point of just knowing eachother to being besties and hangin out) ( cause i have single friends from different well not cliques but like groups of people (not like one from emo and one from athletic players then a geeky one) we are all basically of the same popularity just not friends(we have a graduating class of 600 so its hard to be friends with everyone and get to know everyone
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I had this problem with my two best friends and honestly I don't think you can make that happen. My friends weren't exactly "friends" either because one of my friends was jealous of the time I was spending with the other. I left it alone I hung out with both of them separately and then they just started to become friends too. I think that you are putting too much emphasis on friends. Just your friends aren't all in one group doesn't mean you can't be friends with them. You don't need your own clique...just go with the flow. Maybe someday they will become friends.
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Well I personally think there's nothing wrong with having more than one group of best friends.
For instance, I went to a different highschool than most of my best friends and good friends from middle/elementary school. So, I have the group I've always known, and friends from my new school that I'm just as close with. Plus, my boyfriend and best friend have barely met, and it's not a problem.
Having friends with different personalities is good, too. It makes things interesting. "Variety is the spice of life" after all. I guess if you wanted everyone to be friends, you could all go to the same place; i.e. friends house, movie, mini golf, etc. If you're all hanging out together you're much more likely to all be friends. You won't just wake up one day and think "Hey let's be BFFLs with ____ and ____!"
-LM
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