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1st kiss?!
15/f
i'm in 10th grade and i still haven't gotten my first kiss. Now i know you guys are going to say, you have to wait or someday it's going to happen, but it seems like it's never going to happen for me. Most of my friends have been kissed already and have boyfriends and sometimes i feel lonely...i don't know it just always seems like nothing ever works out for me. so basically i want guys opinions on what they find attractive in a girl.
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I'm 17, and other than like truth or dare stuff (which doesnt really count) i had my first kiss when i was 16, and i kind of rushed into this relationship with this guy b/c i felt like i was "supposed" to have a boyfriend, and i thought that it was what i wanted- but it ended up being a disaster, the guy was insane...all he ever wanted to do was makeout, and he always wanted to be together-- which is cute, but it gets to the point where he would be mad if i couldnt hang out one night or something (and we went to different schools- which probably didn't help)...butt my point is you should try and rush into any thing because you might end up regretting it. Don't worry about your age- everyone has there own pace of things- which i know is hard because sometimes i feel the same way...but for now at least, just try and have fun with your girlfriends, and enjoy high school b/c there will be plenty of time for guys when you get older.
GOOD LUCK and i hope this helped (even though i know its not what you wanted to hear)
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I am a girl and I want you to know this...It is not about you, it is about the people you are around...most of the time. I lived in a area of a race that was predominately not my own. there was very little inter racial dating. Even when guys of a different race like you they didn't say anything. I had about 3 guys that liked me and never said anything... i knew it...i could feel it, I later found out for sure when i got back from college and one finally asked me out on a date. If i had judged my self by the men there i would have thought I was the ugliest piece of shit and that was weird cause when I looked in the mirror i saw beauty. But when i moved and I got around more open minded guys...man I had to beat them off with a stick. So sometimes it is where you are, maybe you are doing all the right things but the guy for you just isn't there, or maybe he is and you just haven't noticed him. Most guys will tell you that they just want a girl with a good personality that understands them, thinks their funny and can love them. Of course they want to be physically attracted to you and maybe share similar religious stuff depending on who you are dealing with. But just be your self...I didn't have my first kiss until I was 19 and it wasn't because I wasn't cute. It was because I wasn't around the right men hahaha. Peace.
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