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ummm,
ok, today my bfs bro talked crap about me, I told my bf and he told me not to take things so personal. Well, his bro THEN said that he hated me, and he would hurt me. my bf talked to him, but then his bro said he was joking. DO you think he was, and I even have a witness to prove I'M right. SO what do I do? Cause I don't think my bf of over a year belives me.
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well i think that if he lets people talk crap about you hes not worth it there are other guys that can and will protect you more
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If your boyfriend says he believes his brother was joking, accept that, at least for now.
If your boyfriend doesn't believe his brother made the threat, present your witness and explain that although you don't want to cause trouble with his brother, it's very important to you that he believes in you.
Other then that, stay away from the brother and don't speak to him at all. Don't blow it out of purportion just yet. You two have managed to get along well enough for the last year, so sit tight and see if things can go back to normal on thier own.
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My dear friend,
Nobody has the right to treat you this way. If your boyfriend's brother has threatened you, this is a legal issue regarding your safety, and you might want to tell your parents and contact the local authorities. Your boyfriend is being extremely insensitive, witness or not, in not taking your concerns seriously. While I'm sure you and your boyfriend have had good times together, I think it's time to move on before you find yourself in a situation that will put you in danger.
-Linda
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