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sex too painful
19/f
I don't know what to do. My boyfriend and I have tried having sex several times but it never works. It's extremely painful. I know about relaxing, but it just doesn't work. I mean I can't get him inside that far at all. Not even a inch. It feels like he's stretching me too much and tearing me. I'm fine with fingers though to an extent. Can't go in that far. But is there anything to reduce the pain? I was thinking about getting drunk and having him try. I.. honestly don't care if I don't remember my first time. But is there any other ways?
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Don't get drunk, that's so not romantic! I know it hurts, but you'll eventually be able to have sex no problem. Even better than no problem, you'll have fantastic sex! Anyway, you just have to do it a few times before it stops hurting. I know the pain is practically unbearable, but repetition is the only way to make it stop hurting. Good luck, hang in there!
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getting drunk is probably the most regretful thing you could ever do, you can't reduce the pain without having something stretch you out, thats impossible. we all go through the pain and once you do it a few times, it won't hurt as much. all you can do is have him finger you more than usual, you have to have some pain. and honestly, the more it hurts, the better it feels for them so thats a good thing!
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I could think of a number of ways none of which are proper to mention on this website.
The option that is, is you should find ways to stretch yourself out more before sex. More fingers, maybe a dildo if you don't mind a trip to the adult novelties store, something along those lines.
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