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my birthday today was worse than ever


Question Posted Thursday February 14 2008, 8:12 pm

today has been the worst day of my life. its my bday today i turned 14. everything just went wrong. my 2 best friends, one is pissed about sumfthin taht has nothing to do with her and is ignoring me but she finally yelled at me over texting. and then my other bestfriend is a guy and weve been best friends since i can remember and weve liked eachother and hated eachother off and on but were both afraid so we never did anything but todays valinetins day so i was gona ask him out no matter how much i got hurt but he didnt come to school. then my family never got me a cake and we couldnt even go out to eat. then my cousins couldnt come over cuz they have better things to do. and i dont get presents cuz they say i dont need any altho for my sister they spent 300$. my birthday party is tomarrow and less than half the people can even come and its gona storm so the outdoor party is now indoor and our house is tiny. we dont have a cake for tomarrow or food or decorations and i have schoool so i cant set it up. that partys a bust. i got my progress report card and im failing so im in even more trouble and a few of the people cant come because of report cards. also my mom goes off on me about how i dress so gothic altho i dont at all and how all i wanted for my bday was to dye my hair with the dye i have left that i already used before but i cant. the only thing i can think of that was good today was that my friend gave me a cupcake with a candle in it. i loved that but nothing else at alll happend thats good i tried thinking positive. anything else or does that sum it up

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Sima answered Thursday February 14 2008, 8:28 pm:
I'm sorry that you had such a rough day. I would be pretty bummed if my special day turned out like yours did. Even though you're 'gothic', it gives your family no right to ignore you like that. At least you had a little positive thing that happened today. Maybe you should try to spend more time with this friend [the one that gave you a cupcake].

Consider keeping a journal or a private online blog to collect all of your thoughts and feelings. When you need to vent, you can just go right ahead and let it all out.

And about this friend that ignored you through texting.. just let it go, and move on. The more that you sit and start worrying about what happened, the more that it will break you down.

Message me if you need more help.

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Cinnamon721 answered Thursday February 14 2008, 8:26 pm:
Wow, I feel your pain. 1st I want to say, that I'm sorry your day hasn't been going well. People get those a lot, but we most face it strong and get through it. Other days could be worst.

I'm glad that your friend took the thought of giving you a cupcake with a candle, that was very sweet and thoughtful of them.

Every year wont be the best, so just appreciate that you were 1st, able to be 14years old, and even though it wasn't the best day, you may look at this and be happy.

Everything happens for a reason. Ever thought you might have gotten more than your sister throughout the year?

Thinking positive doesn't always have their instant gratification. It takes time.
And remember, patience is the key to an improvement in life.

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