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does he like me or not?
so my friend bobby and i began getting really close this year after him and his ex girlfriend brianna broke up for good. ive known him since i was in 5th grade(hes a year older). so bobby and i became basicially best friends but i began to fall for him..hard. and now i like him alot. all my friends ask me if we're dating yet because we flirt all the time. when i had volleyball season, he always asked me when games were and if he said he'd be there, he was. now im in basketball season and he comes to some of my games, but the flirting has increased. a few days ago i asked him if he liked me or not. and he said " in a going out way, no not really but i cant say that about anyone because i like being single."
however yesterday before my game i was in the athletic trainers office by myself and he walked in when he finished weight training. since i was sitting on the file cabinet and he pushed me back and sat infront of me. he has just cut his hair from being shoulder length to about an inch long so i enjoy playing with it and he lets me. while i was doing such, he took my uggs off my feet and put them on his. i told him i had to get up and leave for the game and he asked me if he could borrow five dollars to get something to eat so i went in my bag and handed him five dollars. when i gave it to him he looked me in the eyes and said " lizzy, i love you. your the best..i really do love you" now still remembering(and being hurt by) what he said when i asked him if he liked me, i said "yeah im sure you mean that one." and he just looked at me like i smacked him in the face.
and sure enough he came to the game. when i finally got in, he started yelling " lets go lizzy!" really loud. i fouled a girl and he yelled " YEAH LIZZY WAY TO BEAST A GIRL! WOOH!"
its not even just once and a while that we flirt, its all the time. when i was on crutches from a sports injury, he kept telling me i had to get better. i just dont know what to do or say anymore.
everyone thinks were dating and they even say infront of me, " thats bobby's girl".
i dont know what to do anymore=/.
what do you think? he likes me and doesnt want to admit it, or he just doesnt like me?
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Im in the same postion as your guy
Theres this girl that likes me and i like her and we flirt all the time but i like bein single
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He likes you, alright.
The thing is, though, he doesn't know how he feels about dating. He's confused.
Sometimes guys just don't get it, so you have to take matters into your own hands. Ask him out, to dinner and a movie, or even to just hang out casually. Whatever you do, make it clear that you're asking him out.
If he turns you down like: "I don't feel like dating anyone right now." You may want to consider finding someone who is ready.
Likely, though, he'll be extremely happy to start dating you. It's not as though [most] guys go around saying "I really love you" to just anyone.
Good luck =]
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