I am 15/f and i this year I started at a new High school. I have made a few girl friends but no one that i spend a lot of time with. I always seem to be hanging out with the guys. At lunch i sit with a table full of guys and one other girl(my best friend who also switched schools). During class when we group up to work on projects I always end up with all guys, one even being my best friends ex. Is this weird? Why do I have such a hard time making friends. I'm not trying to be vain when I say this, but I really am a likeable person. Nice, compassionate, and caring. Is something wrong with me?
I'm sure you will meet plenty of people if you just put an effort into saying hi, or telling someone that you like their shirt that day. People will realize how nice and caring you are when you put yourself out there and show people how nice you can be, so they will want to be better friends with you.
These things take time. Don't worry about it. Enjoy what you've got. Is being friends with guys all that bad? Guys have MUCH less drama. So that's a plus. But just stick to what you've got for now, as you are meeting new people. I'm sure you will meet plenty of friends. It just takes patience.
katieneedsadvice answered Saturday February 9 2008, 1:25 am: i am the same way. it's not bad. it's just that you get along better wtih guys like i do. there is alot less drama and less whinging. it is ttly normal! You probly grew up with mostly brothers(i did that why i get along with guys better anyway)
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