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well so this year i somehow got voted the winter ball queen and my boyfriend jake is the winter ball king. but the day before we found this out i decided to break up with him. hes really started to get super clingy and hes all over me all the time which i totally cant tolerate and yes ive talked to him but it hasnt gotten any better. just i wonder if i should still break up with him before winter ball because of the court thing and all. but then again i definatly couldnt stand being his date to the dance. so idk what to do. advice please and thanks :)
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you don't have to do something you don't want to. and it'd be worse if you were dancing together where everyone notices your breakup afterwards, pple will misinterpret your intentions and you can come off as a jerk. so just don't make it a big deal or a topic of discussion. can you go talk to those who counted the polls or who were responsible for announcing winter queen? i don't know how that stuff works, but go see who's in charge, and tell them you don't want to be queen(you don't have to tell them the story about breaking up, you can say you don't want your friend to be upset, for example). and they can play it off like they miscounted the votes and they'll announce second place instead. if you don't like to do that, then just go to the dance w/him, but make it known that you're both taking it easy(make sure he's in on it too), so later on when people do find out you've broken up, it wouldn't seem so sudden like you were taking advantage of him or something. i hope that was some help.
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