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I feel like I'm on Flavor of Love.
This is going to be pretty long, so I apologize in advance.
I like this kid named Sean. We dated for a little bit last year, but I broke it off because I didn't think I saw him in that light, which was incredibly stupid, because I did and still do have feelings for him, which he doesn't exactly know about.
We're friends, and we chill with the same people, if that adds any clarity.
Now for the problems. Their names are Molly, Michaela, and Tiffany.
Molly also likes Sean. She's a freshman, while Sean and I are juniors. Molly is best friends with Sean's best friend's girlfriend. So she kind of comes into the group by association. She kind of doesn't have a personality that I've seen, but I don't really know her. He's told me that he hates the people that she hangs out with, and that the fact that she's a freshman is a turn-off.
Then there's Michaela, who likes Sean. I personally think that she's completely fake (which is probably just because I know that she likes him). But that doesn't mean that Sean doesn't like her. She's friends with a friend of mine (who is also a friend of Sean's). She's supposed to hang out with Sean this weekend with our mutual friend and her boyfriend (I guess like a double-date?).
Tiffany is Sean's ex-girlfriend. She cheated on him, he broke up with her after confiding in me that she was "never happy", and he told me that he had these feelings for her, but that she didn't have them back. They broke up about a week ago, and she's texting him asking if he misses "them", saying "Ugh. I hate this.", and so on. They only dated for about a month.
I think that the only reason that I haven't told Sean about my feelings for him is because I know how confused he is dealing with Molly and Michaela, and I don't think that I want to add to that. It's impossible for me to get over him, and I don't know what to do.
I see him between classes and he nudges me playfully, we shoot smiles at one another, he teases me playfully, and I can't get him out of my head.
What should I do?
I know I should tell him that I like him... but how?
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okay, so from past experiences, i would definetely say that you need to tell him asap. yeah its gonna be kinda wierd since he has all these girls after him and i totally understand that you dont want to be just another one of them. however, if you like this guy, dont let him get away! just tell him up front. when you two are casually talking (maybe even about his girl situation) just be like "okay, so i know youve got a lot on your mind right now, and im not really sure what your gonna do with this, but i thought id throw it out there: i like you.. im not trying to put any more pressure on you, but i didnt want something to happen that made me regret not telling you, so there." be confident when you tell him too, guys like confidence. good luck =]
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