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okay so what should i do now???
okay so the guy i was dating, we had gone out three times.and in my last questions they are all almost about him but i am seriously hooked on him and i am not one of those girls who try to hurt themselves or suicide over it but sorry if that offended anyone i didnt mean it in a bad way. but ya well he dumbed me for my friend and her and i arent that close but still. and well apparently his brother told him when my ex boyfriend asked him if he should still date me or go out with my friend. and i know he sounds like a no good low life but he really isnt. i swore i wouldnt date him again after this.. but i am still confused and i know to stay away from him for a while. i was thinking that wel if he and my friend broke up and he asked me out again that i would say no and see how long he will wait for me. does that sound like a good plan or any other suggestions?? i love him to much. please help.
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I usually don't recommend "re-dating" people. It's like stopping smoking and then starting up again. It's not a good relationship because you broke up for a reason, right? Next time you try to get together with him, remember the bad things, not the good ones. Although all you can see is how you love him, remember that he is abusive with your fragile emotions. If he's willing to dump you for someone else, he isn't going to be true to you because it's like your his second choice. Sorry about your situation, but he'll just keep hurting you if you let him back. Find someone who treats you right!
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Waiting for him to get over your friend and then dating him would technically work. The one problem, though, with this is that you don't know if he'll dump your friend, how long you'll have to wait, or even if he'll be worth dating at the end of this.
After you've waited to make sure you're not just his rebound girl, there is still no way to guarantee he'll truly like you and respect you. Yes, you'll have the guarantee that he's willing to wait for you, in some senses, but as well you'll also have the guarantee that he's this guy who'd run out of a relationship with you for someone else.
Waiting should be your last resort. If you can, try to get over him. Get yourself occupied with lots of things much more fun that pining over him, you know, like having a huge slumber party with pizza and ice cream without him =]
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