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Im falling for my best guy friend


Question Posted Saturday February 2 2008, 9:32 pm

I'm a female 15 yrs old and hes 16 yrs old.we've been good friends for about a year now.And he basically knows everything about me and visa versa.we text every night.I finally got the guts to tell him how i felt.But he said he just likes me as friends with benefits.But we've never done anything in the past.That was about two weeks ago and were still good friend a kinda got over him.Today he asked me if i wanted to go on a date with him tomorrow.I AM REALLY SURPRISED.He said he would ask my mom if i could go.i first said y.but he just responded saying cause i want to.so i said ok.i wanted to know if i should go and if you think he likes me or just wants to hang out?


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junebug93 answered Sunday February 3 2008, 3:07 pm:
Well, of course, if you've truly gotten over him you should casually decline. However, if you still have feelings for him, go on this meeting/date/ whatever it is, and make sure it's not just a way for him to get you back to being "friends with benefits" again.

You'll know more if this is a date or not once you get there. To make sure it's not just another friends with benefits thing, I'd say to hold off on anything physical (if he initiates it) until you know how he feels about you, and if he mature enough to handle anything to do with dating or relationships.

Take it slow, and if he flirts with you flirt back. Good hinters that he wants to date are flirting, going to the movies, and, or course, using the word "date" (you seem to have gotten the impression that it's a date already from your question).

If it all goes well, casually or jokingly being up the idea of you two together, a relationship, or being on a date, and see how he responds.

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ohitscassidy answered Sunday February 3 2008, 2:58 pm:
well if he said the word date then i think he might like you.. but theres no way to be sure unless you ask him yourself.

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