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confused as hell
need seroios advice me and my well curent ex just broke up becouse she cheated well i havent been to school she always types to me that she misses me so much well she says she is not sure if she loves me but does says she doesnt love the chick she cheated on me with and from what it sounds like she wants to get back with me but ya i love her and want to its just shes sooooo confused theres alot more stuff 2 i dont know. she says all kinds of stuff about me good just dont know if shes trying to screw with my head or not do u think she really cares i need advice BAD truth is i have major depression problems and her doing this stuff to me is driving me insane
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i think you should give her a chance take it slow though make sure she cares about you... she obviously cares about you. and she wants you to know it. but hang out with her. as friends. and see how she acts. see if she acts the way she used to act when you guys went out, or if she's all flirty. if she's flirty. she wants you for your body. but if she's kind and sweet. then she prolly likes you.. but she's scared. she wants you to like her. and i think you should give her a chance. but stay cautious. she might be using you. you can honestly never know what goes on in a girl's mind. but give her a chance. she might really care.
hope i helped.
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You think your confused? Have you actually read your question? :D I can't tell if you are a male or female?~)these are the things I do know: a) your ex is female b)she cheated on you with a chick c)your unsure if she wants you back d)you love her e)do we think she cares. Mind you sexual orientation doesn't matter, because that's not the question at hand, however, for future references, it'd be nice to know. :~D
Now, here's what I think you should do. Ask her straight out what it is she wants from you, if she's going to continue to tell you how much she misses you but then retracts her feelings when you try to get her back. Let her know that you love her and that you are willing to work things out, but you two have to communicate with each other. Let her know that you would rather she broke up with you first if she knows she is unhappy or wanting to be with someone else. At least this way, it doesn't hurt twice as bad because she cheated and broke up with you, double stings.
It does sound like to me, she is just trying to make sure she has a back-up plan when everything else falls downhill. If she doesn't have good luck with that one person, she wants to keep a leash on you so she won't be alone. It's selfish and hurts other people, but they don't tend to see that aspect of the story.
Just lay your cards down on the table, be honest, straightforward and make sure you let her know that you are willing to work this out, but not at the expense of your heart. Good Luck!!
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