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It hurts
If you have sex and it hurts what do you do. Why do it hurt so much and what it he put it in the wrong hole. And what if something inside you break or something what should you do and how would you know.
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Well, that depends. If it's your first time and your hymen is still intact, chances are it's gonna hurt. It made me cry the first two times it hurt so bad. The third time is when it stopped for me. But everyone's different. What do you do? You try to relax.
Well, a guy's penis can only really go in two places down there, and you'd definitely know if it went in your butt.
It hurts so much because - not to get too graphic here, but - your guy's basically ripping a hole in a thin skin inside your vagina called your hymen. It hurts when you get a papercut, right? Your hymen is skin like any other, with blood vessels, and nerve endings. If you cut it, chances are it will bleed and hurt just like the rest of your body.
Some people are lucky and don't have those, and others still have their hymens broken via things other than sex, like tampons, horseback riding, any vigorous sports, or even masturbation.
People's bodies are very resilient. It's hard to break something having sex. (I mean, you can pull a muscle if you're really rough, but that's unlikely.) Well, except your hymen, but that's supposed to happen. If you broke something, you'd know the same way you broke an arm or a leg, 'cause seriously, unless he's like, trying to break one of your libs, or like, a rib or something, no part of you is gonna be seriously injured.
It's also normal to bleed a little (or a lot) the first time (or first few times) you have sex.
If it's NOT your first time and it hurts like hell, something could be wrong, and you should stop, then go see your gyno asap.
Otherwise, a little (or a lot of) pain is normal for your first few times. Once you get that initial pain over with, sex is great - but always practice safe sex. Even if you're on birth control, make your guy wear a condom. If you're not on BC, get on it before you have sex. It helps with PMS, too. =)
Good luck!
-Siren =)
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