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i can't tell if he likes me or not?


Question Posted Tuesday January 29 2008, 7:35 pm

ok i'm gonna try to make this as short as possible without cutting anything out haha. well i'm 15f and in early december during a drama rehearsal i saw this kid that was completely gorgeous. hes a senior and i'm a sophomore, and he has a girlfriend. a few days later he adds me on facebook. we start talking and then he gives me his number about 2 weeks later. i had no idea what to say or do with his number because i didnt want to seem like an idiot so after a week i gave him my number and told him sorry for the late reply. literally 2 hours after, he texts me saying i hope you're not as slow on the phone as you are on facebook and since then he's been texting me everyday nonstop except sleeping of course. and he's always the one to text me first. this happened on a tuesday night and he kept wanting to hang out so we finally did on that friday. he told me he'd take me to chicago for my birthday and wanted me to visit him at work and stuff. yet i can't tell if he likes me or not. what do you think? i'd really appreciate your help!

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iloveaar answered Thursday January 31 2008, 12:36 am:
ok definatly hes interested..but what you dont know is that if he is interested meaning he wants a relationship with you, or is he interested but not as much as to be your boyfriend ...first of all this is what i would do (you dont have to agree with it , in my opinion it works and its logical haha)...dont hang out with him..continue texting and flirting so he will notice that you're interested ....but when he said like hey lets hang out or somethingg...say somehting like "oh i'd like to biut i think this is unfair for your girlifrend " ...like avoiding it saying "if you didn't have a girlfriend then maybe ..." hahaha but keep texting and talking and facebook , anything so he will notice ok she likes me but shes not agree wiwth me having a girlfirend and hanging out with both of them..so if he is interested enough he will wbrake up..if he does (be sure he did it , like prove it or something , cause you dont know if he is interested in you to cheat on his girlfriend with you, or have a relationship ) ..so keep him interested but dont meet...and explain that it is because he has a girlfriend and you dont think its a good idea ,,try using "i wouldn't like my boyfriend hanigng out with other girls" ..but make him understand thats the only reason why dyou dont hang out :P keep it like this for some days and then you can tell the difference (by his actions ) to see if he is really interested :)! try it and tell me how it works ..if he just stops inviting you to hang out becuase you said he has a girlfirned..then sorry but maybe he just wanted to date both of you...if he really shows interest or intentions to do something about this issue then he likes you serioously :) good luck!

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