I sit with some of my friends during lunch that I have known for over 10 years and now there is this one guy who has started sitting with us and he kinda creeps me and my friends out. I had one class with him last semester and 2 of my guy friends we sit with kinda knew him from football and he is a grade ahead of us so we really don't know him and he really doesn't know us. He said he was going to sit with us because he didn't know anyone else in that lunch period since it was mostly a freshman lunch and he is a sophmore. He creeps us out and is really annoying. We have jokingly told him to go sit somewhere else and kinda been hinting that we don't really want him to sit with us, but he isn't really getting it. How can we nicely tell him we don't want him sitting with us at lunch. We don't want to be mean, he really doesn't know that many people in this lunch, but we DO NOT WANT HIM SITTING WITH US!
masterclinic answered Tuesday January 29 2008, 10:31 pm: I don't think there is a nice way of telling someone that you don't want to be around them. Just tell him straight up that you don't want him sitting with you and your friends but make sure that your friends say something too or he probably won't listen and think you are joking again. Best of luck [ masterclinic's advice column | Ask masterclinic A Question ]
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