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center of attention.
ok. so. i have a friend. and we're constantly together and i would consider her my "best" friend. but i kinda have a problem with the way she acts. everytime we're out together she acts completely crazy and somehow makes the entire night about her, even if it means embarrassing everyone around her. shes beautiful and many guys want to get with her. but i feel like when we're together i have no chance at meeting people bc shes busy being the center of attention. plus every guys ive seem to meet shes already been with so i feel like i get her sloppy seconds. and i hate it. i dont know what to do. i dont want to quit hanging out with her but i dont want to act completely obnoxious to get peoples attention. what to do?
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Here's my advice: you don't have to hang out with her everytime you go out. You know, there can be some nights where you can go out and meet guys on your own, but have a girls night out with her every once in a while. Or, you could even find another friend who has a similar personality to yours, and go meet guys with her. Either way, just remember that you are not obligated to hang out with her everytime you go out. Good luck! ;)
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Apparently this girl is very unsure about herself and probably isn't getting enough attention at home so seeks it otherwise. So if i were you i would explain to her how you feel. Now of course she is going to explain to you that you are just jealous but explain to her that you just feel like you don't get a chance at anything. If she gets angry or upset then thats her problem. A true friend would take in to consideration their friends feelings and would want them to tell them if somthing they are doing makes them upset. So if she starts hatred toward you for doing so then she was never your friend to begin with
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