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College Guy
First off, I wasn't sure where to put this. Sorry if it's in the wrong spot.
I have a boyfriend, we've been dating for almost 3 years. I go to a local community college in my city. I met this guy who attends the same college as me. He asked if he could take me to a local coffee shop after class one day. He's really funny and fun to hang out with.
Is it wrong of me, since I am in a relationship to do that? Or let alone, do I need my boyfriends permission to go have coffee with this friend I met at school?
The last thing I'm trying to do is cheat on my boyfriend. Actually, I wouldn't even consider it that at all.
Eeek. I'm really confused.
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it's fine that you are making new friends, but make it clear to this guy that you have a boyfriend who you are very happy with. your boyfriend shouldn't have a problem with you having coffee with other guys, as long as nothing develops from it. i don't think you need to ask your boyfriend's permission because that would give him the option of being controlling (not that he would because i don't know him), so it's best to make your own decisions. you said that you don't consider it cheating, so it's not cheating as long as y'all are just friends. does your boyfriend have other friends that are girls? if so, then you have no reason to be worried about him getting upset that you have a new guy friend. hope i helped :)
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well since your asking i'm assuming you would feel a little guilty about going to get some coffee with anothe guy.. you can still go, just tell your boyfriend he is just a nice guy from class and wanted to get some coffee, but i wouldn't make it a regular thing.. boyfriends tend to be super sensitive and jealous when they start to feel threatened. and this boy from your class, he might not know you have a boyfriend. unless you've already told him. so it isn't fair to keep him lingering, he might start to like you.. so i'd let him know you're taken. :) but it's always nice to make new friends. so i say go, but let our boyfriend know ahead of time. :)
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